I am a 33-year-old married man, my wife is 29, and we have been married for 4 years. My wife has not been interested in sex right from the beginning. I have tried to convince her and sometimes forced her too because I have a great libido. Our frequency is once/twice a month but I masturbate daily. I watch pornographic films and magazines and find myself attracted towards every female I come in contact with (neighbours, colleagues or sisters-in-law) and want to have sex with them. Our society does not permit sex outside of marriage, but if a wife is not bothered about the husband, where should he go?
It is necessary to satisfy one’s needs but its not advisable to get into trouble because of one’s greed! You may have had differences in the level of libido with your wife but if all couples with such temporary or permanent differences were to seek other sexual partners, there could be a circus of sex. Discuss it with your wife. Find out what is she troubled by. It isn’t that she is not interested in sex but may not be comfortable with your approach. You seem preoccupied with sex. But Sex cannot be an obsessive act with every woman. If acted out, this may lead to social problems, endanger marital life or lead to unsafe sex. You both may need to see mental health professionals for the mismatch between your hypersexuality or her hyposexuality.
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